The disciple is gradually unfolded the secrets.   Never be in a hurry.    A child is not given a gem to play with.    Due to ignorance most people think too big about themselves.  They feel they are very intelligent and highly qualified.  They can be politicians, diplomats, military brass, doctors, a priest etc. Let me be candid, before a Guru one is Zero.     What so ever may be the material knowledge and stature of a person one cannot be any where near the knowledge and enlightenment of a Yogi.  Hence be very humble and gentle before a sage.   Knowledge can be written on a blank page not on a page on which there is no space for writing.

      A disciple should never argue with the Guru or show off own knowledge, it’s forbidden by scriptures because the disciple doesn’t know what is good for him, showing knowledge indicates excess ego and lack of humility.   One should speak, only when spoken to. Never hide anything from the Guru or tell lies.   He may already know your intentions and desires yet remember unless you open your heart nothing will pour into it. You can speak on any doubt you wish to or seek counsel.

       The Guru-disciple relationship is sacred; the bond is thicker than father and son.

The father only ensures physical and material growth of the child. The Guru looks after the evolutionary cycle or grants Nirvikalpa Samadhi to his deserving disciple. The Guru brings the aspirant to the right purity and frame of mind for the higher values and realizations other than everyday life.